Here’s the truth... this is a time in your life where you have an opportunity to re-invent yourself and design the life you honestly want and fulfill your hearts desire. So the purpose of this blog is Not to give you the "How to Meet Quality Men" advice... because you’re not ready for that yet. This blog is to help you look in the mirror and get honest with yourself and let go of All your excuses for not meeting the good guys. Once you do that I have a little exercise for you that will help you get on the right track to meeting your ideal mate. Take the next few weeks and begin writing about the type of man that you believe would be best suited to you. To be successful with this exercise you will want to continue to work with this exercise every day for the next few weeks and keep refining it. This is not any easy ‘do it in one sitting’ assignment. Nope, it takes some real soul searching and rethinking about whom would be best suited to you in a long term relationship today. But I promise you it’s worth the effort. It’s the way to get what you want in life rather than thinking there is a reason you can’t have what you want… because you believe your excuses. Watch for my next blog post where I will take you through the next step of how and where to meet relationship minded men. Please leave me a comment and let me know if you think it’s a good idea to let go of your excuses for not meeting decent men. Or if you think I’m off base let me know what your experience has been. The end!